自伤
suit oneself───随自己的意愿做事
up oneself───振作起来
assert oneself───坚持自己的权利或意见
forget oneself───忘我，忘乎所以；失去知觉
square oneself───摆好架势；道歉
outsmart oneself───聪明反被聪明误
abuse oneself───自虐
be oneself───显得自然；显得真诚；（尤指身体、精神等方面）处于正常状态
by oneself───独自地，单独
I look at affairs from a dual perspective: hurt and betrayal on one side, growth and self-discovery on the other — what it did to you, and what it meant for me.───我将婚外情一分为二来看：一方面是伤害和背叛，另一方面是成长和自我发现。婚外情给你带来了什么，对我又意味着什么。
If you are not qualified, you shouldn't interpret at formal meetings. You will never be fat by eating only one mouthful. If you do so, your sense of self-respect will be hurt.───如果没有达到那一步，千万不要一口就想吃个胖子，否则就会伤害自己的自尊心，别人还说你不行。
I look at affairs from a dual perspective: hurt and betrayal on one side, growth and self-discovery on the other... Your first marriage is over. Would you like to create a second one together?───我把婚外情看作双刃剑：一面是伤害、背叛，另一面是成长和自我发现……你的第一段婚姻结束了，你还愿意跟你的另一半重新开始第二段吗？